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Q - If an alcoholic comes to an
A.A. meeting under the influence of alcohol, how do you treat him or handle him
during the meeting?
A - Groups will usually rum amuck on that sort of question. At first we
are likely to say that we are going to be supermen and save every drunk in town.
The fact is that a great many of them just don't want to stop. They come, but
they interfere very greatly with the meeting. Then, being still rather
intolerant, the group will swing way over in the other direction and say, "No
drunks around these meetings." We get forcible and put them out of the meeting,
saying, "You're welcome here if your sober." But the general rule in most places
is that if a person comes for the first or second time and can sit quietly in
the meeting, without creating an uproar, nobody bothers him. On the other hand,
if he's a chronic "slipper" and interferes with the meetings, we lead him out
gently, or maybe not so gently, on the theory that one man cannot be permitted
to hold up the recovery of others. The theory is "the greatest good for the
greatest number." (Yale Summer School of Alcohol Studies©, June 1945)
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