Let's Ask Bill
|Q - What happened to your
A - It was Ebby who brought me the message that saved my life and uncounted thousands of others.
Because of gratitude and old friendship, my wife Lois and I invited Ebby to live at our home shortly after I sobered up. The son of a well-to-do family in Albany, he had never learned any profession so he was broke and had to begin all over. These were difficult circumstances, naturally
Ebby stayed with us something like a year and a half.
Being intent on getting re-established in life, he took little interest in
helping other alcoholics. Little by little, he commenced the rationalization we
have seen so often. He began to say that if he had the right romance and the
right job then things would be okay. At length, he fell by the wayside. He would
not mind if I tell this - it is a part of his story today.
For many years, my old friend Ebby was on the wagon and off. Sometimes he could stay sober for a year or more. He tried living with Lois and me for another considerable period but apparently this was of no help. Maybe we actually hindered him. As A.A. began to grow his position became difficult. For a long time things went from bad to worse.
About six years ago the groups down in Texas decided to try their hand. Ebby was shipped non-stop to Dallas and placed in an A.A. drying out place. In these new surroundings in Texas, far from his old failures, he has made a splendid recovery. Excepting for one slip which occurred about a year after his arrival down there he has been bone dry ever since. This is one of the deepest satisfactions that has ever come to me since A.A. started and many another A.A. can say the same. © (N.C.C.A. 'Blue Book,' Vol.12, 1960)
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