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TIME BONUS SECTION OCTOBER 2004: GENERATIONS
A man who knew the founder of A.A. has had a 70year quest to help other problem drinkers
By Melissa August/Towson
It was on a cold day in 1934 that James Houck hit
bottom. Newly wedded and living in Frederick, Md., he was getting drunk every
weekend - and sometimes even during the week - on home brew. He had recently
been in a drunken-driving accident in his employer's car, and his drinking had
estranged him from his wife Betty. "We were not married a month," Houck says,
"before I told her I was sorry I ever saw her." Houck had begun drinking early,
at age 5, when he would sneak sips from his mother's bottle of dandelion wine,
then make up the difference with water. Although he grew up in the middle of
Prohibition, his drinking problem only got worse as the years passed.
On Dec. 11, a friend who thought Houck needed to make some changes took him to a
meeting at the local YMCA of the Oxford Group, an evangelical society founded in
Britain by Frank Buchman that was prominent in the 1920s. Houck was immediately
drawn to the group's teachings, which were based on four principles: honesty,
purity, unselfishness and love. He was especially moved by the concept of
"two-way" prayer: the group taught that if you spent quiet time every day
listening to God, he would provide guidance. You were also encouraged to make
restitution, to "put right what's wrong in your life," says Houck.
It was at those Oxford Group meetings that Houck befriended Bill Wilson, a.k.a.
Bill W., a chronic drinker who would go on to co-found Alcoholics Anonymous
(A.A.) in 1939. Houck joined the Oxford Group and became sober on Dec. 12, one
day after Wilson did. Today, at 98, Houck is the only living person to have
attended Oxford Group meetings with Wilson, who died in 1971.
Houck remembers Wilson well, and after a 40-year career as an electrical
engineer and salesman, he has made it his mission to bring the Oxford Group's
teachings to a new generation of recovering alcoholics. In the early 1970s, he
started working with longshoremen on the Baltimore docks, and until recently, he
traveled every six weeks or so, giving talks to members of 12-step programs,
including A.A., around the country. Houck continues to provide counsel to
recovering addicts who telephone from around the world. He still appears at
meetings held within driving distance of his home in Towson, Md., and shares the
inspirational story of his recovery and the early days of the Oxford Group with
out-of-town gatherings via teleconferencing.
Houck wants to restore the old methods the Oxford Group used, in particular its
spiritual aspects, which he believes are stronger and more effective than the
ones currently practiced in A.A. The principles of the group live on in the Back
to Basics organization, which follows a 12-step program similar to that
originally used by A.A. Houck has been trying to apply Back to Basics techniques
in federal and state prisons and is working directly with 300 prisoners in the
Henrico County Jail East, in Richmond, Va.
Houck knows how much a group like this can mean to someone. After he decided on
Dec. 12, 1934, that he would never drink alcohol again, he made restitution with
his wife and others he had harmed. "I started telling my wife what kind of a
fellow I was," he says. "I did this for three nights to get all of the garbage
out. I wanted to be honest about everything in my life." He says his wife was
grateful for the talk and then understood his behavior. "Now we could start our
family and raise the children with the same guidelines. We had family quiet time
every day. That's the way we raised the whole family." Houck lost his wife to
cancer in 1988, but believes the lessons learned from the Oxford Group gave him
a life he had not been sure was possible. "A marriage that wasn't supposed to
last one year lasted 57 years."
From the Sep. 27, 2004 issue of TIME © magazine
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